What’s Your Word for 2023? [Rose-Colored Glasses]

Happy new yr.

It’s that point. You mud off the journals uncared for within the end-of-the-year rush. You find the fitness center membership card and marvel if it’s going to nonetheless scan because it’s been a number of months – or possibly a number of years, given the priority about being round individuals. And you create New Year’s resolutions.

Or possibly you don’t.

Have you provide you with your 2023 phrase but?

Resolutions appear so old-fashioned. Instead, choose one phrase to summarize your intentions and hopes for the brand new yr. I’ve been doing it for about 20 years, and it’s labored properly.

My yearly phrase units the muse for the place I wish to focus. It acts as the basis of all of the intentions I write in my new yr journaling.

My phrase for 2023: stability.

But it is probably not the stability you suppose.

@Robert_Rose’s word for 2023 is balance. But it might not be the definition you think via @CMIContent. Click To Tweet

When you suppose “balance,” a picture of a scale with two equal weights offering good symmetry might come to thoughts. So, when saying issues like “work-life balance,” “resource balance,” and even our “balance sheet,” you imagine it’s about including or eradicating the pressure of 1 to equalize all the pieces.

Now, that’s not incorrect. It’s the primary definition within the dictionary – “an even distribution of weight enabling someone or something to remain upright and steady.” But the second definition matches my intention for the yr – a “condition in which different elements are equal or in the correct proportions.” (The emphasis is mine.)

Striking the correct stability

Finding the right proportions for my work is my focus for 2023. But the query is, “Proportions of what?”

I’m not trying to make a calculated resolution on the quantity of labor I do in a single space in order that I can deal with some new revolutionary challenge. Yes, I’ll reconfigure my actions (as all of us do), however that’s simply figuring out the weights that fill my containers of time.

That’s not my focus this yr. My focus is on balancing the which means of what every of these weights represents.

I’ll ask myself about my stability of satisfaction in how I do these actions, so I can construct my life in the way in which that feels essentially the most rewarding.

Let me clarify.

Whenever I instructed my grandfather I used to be sad at my job or pissed off growing a talent, he would ask: “What are you building?” Then he would inform me this story:

A person occurs upon three stonecutters. He stops and asks what they’re doing. The first stonecutter pauses and says, “I’m cutting stones. I’m doing my job. I’m making a living.” The second stonecutter by no means stops hammering as he says breathlessly, “I’m cutting and polishing the best-crafted stones in the entire country.” The third stonecutter takes a second, factors to the horizon, and smiles, “I am happy. I’m building a cathedral that will one day stand there.”

Most know they don’t wish to be the primary stonecutter. Most individuals need greater than merely “doing the job” or “making a living.”

However, it may be straightforward to get misplaced because the second stonecutter. You idiot your self into pondering you’re working towards one thing worthwhile – the equal of fantastically polished stones. That was each 2021 and 2022 for me.

Are you building a cathedral or cutting the best-crafted stones (i.e. stories)? Too many strive for the latter, says @Robert_Rose via @CMIContent. Click To Tweet

Worthwhile or worthwhile?

There are years when you find yourself with plenty of what looks as if high quality work and maybe a full checking account to indicate for it. But you continually pushed, compelled, and sweated your strategy to that vacation spot. You’re a residing embodiment of the mantra I hate: “No pain, no gain.”

You imagine the pushing is value your whereas. You’ve bought the best-crafted stones. You’ve balanced your actions optimally to get there. But, possibly, should you hear only a bit extra intently, you notice it’s “worthwhile” with somewhat “w.”

There was nothing larger in your thoughts. There’s no satisfaction in contributing to the bigger image you hope to see painted, even when it could be painted over after you’re lengthy gone.

When you’re on this mode, you might transfer from job to job, taking your dedication to excellence and frustration with you. It doesn’t matter should you “quiet quit” and provides your self that aspect hustle that embodies the chance you suppose you need. Instead, you push and push, nonetheless feeling pissed off and prefer it’s not sufficient.

Which stonecutter will you be?

Last month, I talked with the CEO of a content material advertising and marketing know-how startup. He was as pissed off as he’d ever been. A former journalist, he now runs a venture-based firm trying to develop rapidly. He wasn’t pissed off by the same old startup problem of feeding the expansion engine. He knew he may create an organization that made cash. He was pissed off that he didn’t know the best way to change the business.

He stated, “Increasingly, I see myself separate from my business, polishing some separate jewel instead of feeding my passion. We are now wholly focused on building things that will sell or satisfy growth rather than the things we think are meaningful.”

I instructed him the story of the three stonecutters and requested, “What are you building?”

I requested if he may contemplate adapting a few of the similar elements of his new job that he was much less snug with. I requested him if he may rebalance the which means of his enterprise so he didn’t see himself as separate from it. I requested him if he may ask his group to think about why they’re reducing stones. I stated, “It’s not just balancing which activities you’re doing; it’s rebalancing why and how you do them.”

I requested him to think about the identical query I’ve requested myself: How do I permit for the correct mindset to create extra satisfaction?

People (together with me) typically attempt to pressure options. They suppose, “If I just push harder, sell more instead of writing more thought leadership, or say no to more things then I’ll get better results.”

I’ve discovered that issues can “get better” even once I nonetheless do #allthethings. Approaching them with a unique intention permits me to rebalance their which means in my work.

That’s what I wish to keep in mind by making stability my phrase for 2023.

What’s your phrase for 2023? Let me know within the feedback. I hope no matter you select offers you the satisfaction of realizing you’re constructing cathedrals.

It’s your story. Tell it properly.

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